Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of George Francklin Bates with the following comment:
George Francklin Bates married one of my ancestors, Eleanor Milburn Blakiston, after the death of his first wife, Mary. I would be most grateful if I could have a copy of this photo to add to my family tree..... I will of course acknowledge the source as back to you. Many thanks Heather